Since I have no idea of how to start this blog, I'm starting with the fact that I got to meet my amazing boyfriend's mother today. I had no idea that she was going to stop by Culver's today, and I don't think that Jeff knew either but I'm not entirely sure of that. But anyways, I had been helping a customer when she walked in and the customer I was helping answered their cellphone real quick so I just decided to greet her thinking she was a customer (fyi I was on register 1, away from the cold of drive....teehee). Then for some reason, I see Jeff out of the corner of my eye come up front from the kitchen; as he's approaching the lady I just greeted (mom), I suddenly realized the resemblence and find out it's his mom. As they talk, Sheila comes up next to me and asks, "Who's your man talking to?" I respond with, "I believe it's his mom." Sheila then goes, "That's his mom? Damn, she's pretty." "I know, right?!"
I felt like an idiot honestly. See, Jeff had shown me pictures of his mom and sister on Facebook before so I should have recognized her, but I was just in shock with how pretty she is.
So back to what I was saying, Jeff and his mom come over to register 1, Jeff introduces us, and I shake her hand. We talk for a little bit. And from what I'm told by Jeff and Sheila, she approves of me as a girlfriend for Jeff from what she knows. I ask how they think that, the reasoning I'm then given is that she gave me a good-bye hug. :)
After Mrs. Tate leaves, Dustin and Jerry (back in the kitchen) through the window ask who we were talking to, Jeff says again that it was his mom. Dustin's jaw literally drops and goes, "that's your mom?! She's hot!"
I just love how my coworkers respond to certain things.
In other news, Erin, Jason, Jeff, and I get to move into a new trailer. Again, I do know that some of you are thinking, 'Kelsey, it's too soon! You should wait!' and stuff along those lines. Don't get me wrong, I do appreciate the opinions; but as I have told some of the people who were very high against it I am an adult and I can make my own decisions. Sure some in the past have been reckless and stupid and childish, but I've got a really good feeling about this. I mean Jeff makes me feel amazing and beautiful! As I've said in my last blog, I'm more secure about myself now and I'm actually healthier than I've been in a long time since I've stopped puking my guts out. I really do feel as if Jeff is going to be in my life for a long period of time. And sure some will frown upon living together but how else are you supposed to find out how a person really is than in their comfort place called home. I'm young but I have seen many marriages in my life that don't work out because the two people couldn't get along at home because they've never "lived" around them. For those that still think badly about it, go right ahead, be my guest, I don't really care. I've thought long and hard about this, I know it's a very grown-up decision and a serious one at that. I do love him very very much and I think it's a new milestone in my life, one that's going to happen eventually so I figure "why not now?" and "why not with Jeff?"
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